What Little Miss Funeral Wears (when it’s cold outside).
by littlemissfuneral
What do female funeral directors wear when they have to conduct funerals? What do they wear when they have to conduct funerals and it’s a little (or a lot, let’s be real) cold outside? Growing up outside of Buffalo, I am no stranger to winters. It’s cold here. It snows a lot here. And unfortunately…we’re used to it. I’m actually convinced that my body has adapted to the cold so well in fact, that if it’s not in the negatives (temperature wise) I think it’s a good day. But the fact still remains; a large portion of my job takes place outside.
I have a large collection of coats. I hope to eventually show all of my ‘funeral’ coats to you folks through this blog. But one that I have been loving recently is this Calvin Klein number that I purchased this year. I love coats that hit below your waist. The longer the better because more of your body is covered for warmth!
Say what you will on my choice of shoes, but unless it is blizzard weather or severely icy outside I still try to wear a boot with a heel. (Short girl problems, whatever). These uggs have been with me for a couple of seasons now and they keep my feet very warm while not looking clunky. Also, I’m not wearing them in my photos, but I recommend getting a pair of leather gloves. I’ve had a few different pairs and my leather ones are still the warmest I’ve found.
When it comes down to it, cold is cold! It’s a constant struggle between looking professional and staying warm. I know my fellow funeral directors who live in snowy areas will agree with me, although the winter can be a beautiful time, maybe it would be a little more beautiful if it didn’t last as long as it does!
These photos were taken by my husband Josiah LeRoy in The United German & French Cemetery, Cheektowaga, NY.
Coat: Calvin Klein Dress: Loft Boots: UGGS Tights: JCPenney
(I picked up the scarf a few years ago on a trip to Ireland. Once again, super warm!)
IF you are in fact a real funeral director, the families that we serve in the profession could care less what “you” wear. After all, it is all about the families we serve. Have some respect for the profession we serve in and try to “act” professional.
I sell memorials at a family business and I know in fact that what you wear matters.
Do you like going to work with a coffee stain on your shirt? How do you feel when your pants are just a little snug after vacation?
How would you like to meet with someone to talk about a funeral or a memorial for a loved one who has a mohawk? Wears jeans with holes? How about a Bob Marley multi-colored tshirt with a marajuana leaf? Would you feel comfortable?
Also.. with anyone.. don’t you work your best when you feel your best? If a coat can help you do all you can do then more power to you.
Wooaahh. It doesn’t matter what profession you are in, your appearance matters. Your appearance being appropriate is required to respect the very clients you speak of. Why so spiteful?
I am 22 year old women in the second year of my internship and this blog has helped so much. I always struggled when looking for work clothes, trying to find things that were both professional and comfortable is hard especially when all of your coworkers are men.
Woah don”t read her blog then! This is a blog FOR funeral directors by a very well respected young director. I know I’m totally jealous of her boots…Maybe you are too…No need to be rude.
I think you look Beautiful, I wished I knew exactly where you got every piece of clothing you are wearing. I love the coat, I want it, love the dress, want it, I want your entire outfit, It looks beautiful. Please help if you can.I have a funeral to attend.
And YES I think it does matter what you wear in your business. You are Very Nicely dressed.
If you can help me in any way please message me. Thanks